Relationships and Romance for Virgos
People born under the Virgo zodiac sign are governed by the Sun and the Moon. Virgos don’t usually think too highly of themselves, and, for this reason, they are often modest when it comes to pursuing relationships and romance. Astrologists say that Virgos typically have to be encouraged and tend to plan carefully when going for the relationship they want.
Virgos thrive when routine is present, and this is true for Virgos in relationships. They can be pessimistic when faced with changes. In some circumstances, though, Virgos can be impulsive, setting a fast pace for their relationships.
In the right relationship, though, Virgos are quite the ideal lovers. According to astrologists, Virgos are one of the few zodiac signs that can give unconditional love to their partners. Once Virgos find “the one”, they do everything to keep the relationship going and to ensure their partners’ happiness and satisfaction.
Virgos believe that every relationship should be built on two important things: trust and perfection. Even in their relations, they value organization and order and believe that things can always be improved. They strive to achieve their perception of the perfect relationship, so they try their best to be their lovers’ perfect partner.
Virgo lovers: the good and the bad
Astrologists say that Virgos are some of the most helpful among all the zodiac signs. Virgos tend to be reliable; they’re usually the first to lend help to their partners in time of need. Of course, they want their partners to have satisfying, fulfilling lives.
Even in their relationships, Virgos tend to show their ambitious side. They like to use their intelligence to their advantage, and their minds are always analytic and calm, even when solving the most complicated problems and issues. In a heated argument, Virgos will usually back off, returning only when things have cooled down. You can rest assured, though, that they’ll come back with a wide variety of solutions for your argument.
What’s unique about the Virgo lover is that he or she can bring both order and chaos to their relationships. It all depends on their mood and their state of mind. Though they’re usually calm, Virgos can also be melodramatic. They can think too much, exaggerating things and instances that don’t fit in their black-and-white view of the world. As such, Virgos can focus too much on their emotions and wear their hearts on their sleeve, which can put off prospective partners.
When they’re not proudly displaying their temperament, Virgos can seem detached and uncaring. Astrologists emphasize that this is mere appearance, though. Virgos are highly observant and attuned to their surroundings and the people around them. Their feelings tend to easily get hurt, but they won’t show it. You’ll never know it from looking at a Virgo, but they want to always feel appreciated.
What Virgos need from their partners
According to astrologists, Virgos need to be in a relationship that is based in true love and the achievement of perfection. They have a very idealistic perception of romance and relationships and they’ll stop at nothing to have that fairytale ending, no matter how unrealistic it seems for some people. They have no problems with the commitment of loving one person for the rest of their lives, and the mere thought of cheating is outlandish to them.
Like anyone else, Virgos need a partner who is willing to understand and accept their real personality. A Virgo’s ideal partner is willing to do what it takes to pursue their dreams and achieve the Virgo’s idea of the perfect relationship. Virgos need a partner who will show appreciation for everything they do, whether little or big. This is what matters to a Virgo.
Virgos want a relationship that is built on trust. This is why, for many Virgos, the best foundation of a relationship is friendship. This way, Virgos can build trust and affection over time. Virgos want to make sure that the person they commit to is the right partner, as they don’t make commitments lightly. They don’t like making mistakes, either, so Virgos tend to analyze every small detail on their partner.
Virgos may shy away from affection at first, but they’ll eventually warm up to it and have no hesitations with showing the world how much they love you. Once it gets to that point, though, make sure you don’t neglect a Virgo’s show of affection. This can be particularly hurtful to a Virgo.
On the whole, astrologists agree that loving a Virgo is not hard at all and that loving them is much less so.
Attracting a Virgo: do’s and don’ts
Virgos are highly intellectual, so it’s understandable that you’ll have to be quite the thinker to attract a Virgo. Virgos love meaningful, mentally challenging conversations and they like connecting with people who are fun-loving and confident in themselves.
Sincerity is essential to a Virgo, as they don’t like deception and false courtesies. Virgos are naturally drawn to people who are true to themselves and who are transparent with their true personalities.
Virgos love to be in control of what they do and they value their freedom. Virgos thrive when they’re free to explore and be their true selves and when they’re encouraged to pursue their goals and dreams. Do all that and you won’t have to wait long to attract a Virgo.
Virgos love good listeners and will be attracted to anyone who is genuinely interested in what they do. Be interested in their hobbies and pursuits and be open about your appreciation of what they do. It might also help to show that they can always rely on you, no matter the time and place.
Virgos hate to be overpowered, as they tend to hold their freedom dear. They’ll only willingly surrender this freedom to the people they trust most. Virgos also don’t take too kindly to being strong-armed or forced to do something they don’t want to do; you’ll have to convince them in a nice way if you want to get some things done. It’s crucial to think that it’s completely their idea and not yours. This is the most effective way of getting a Virgo to do what you want.
Astrologists advise against even attempting to betray or deceive a Virgo. They’re too intelligent and observant to fall for any duplicity. They’re excellent detectives and can observe and spy on you without you knowing it. They’ll even go to great lengths to observe your behavior to prove that you’re not doing anything wrong.